Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Holiday Break



What's up?
     My blog has been a bit quiet as of late, but my break has been busy busy.  The school term ended around the first week of December, but I wasn't there for final exams because I was already off to National Camp GLOW.  Before my departure, however, some of my adoring fans (students) insisted on holding a good-bye ceremony for me.  I've had these students for almost my entire two years here, and they are now finished with the basic requirements of higher education needed to teach primary school.  Hearing them say that they've appreciated me and learned so much, not just from class but from extra-curricular activities I hosted, really brought tears to my eyes.  I know I've said this before on this blog, but everything I've done here to teach my Ugandan students, they've always taught me twice as much.
  

     After the heartwarming goodbye from the former year II students, I was packing my bags for Camp GLOW, but even before that, I was off to take the GRE in Kampala.  Maggie and I went together to take the big test in downtown Kampala.  Instead of staying at the usual $15.00/night hostel/guesthouse, we got the chance to stay with a U.S. Embassy worker.  Peace Corps now has this program in Uganda where Peace Corps volunteers can get a "sponsor" to host them while they're in the capital.  It's a great opportunity to meet and chat with someone working in the foreign service, and learn all about their experience of development in Uganda, (the American food and hot showers are also an added perk). 
     The GRE test-taking experience, however, wasn't as streamlined as the embassy-worker's Americabubble house.  We stepped very much back into Uganda to face the graduate admission test.  The testing center is smack in the middle of downtown Kampala, so it's easy to find; however, it's also smack-downtown Kampala.  There's all kinds of noise, horns honking, hawkers hawking, not-so-new taxi brakes braking, Ugandans on cellphones walking and talking--and through the windows in the building, even on the eighth floor, you can hear it all.  The testing center provides earmuffs, and Maggie and I brought earplugs as well, but even through that you can still hear a few things, like say, a marching band.  Why was there a marching band on this particular day?  I couldn't tell you, but sure enough, towards the end of our first verbal reasoning section, a marching band paraded down the street in front of the building, then seemed to stop and continue performing for a bit, and then finally proceed onward to wherever the celebration was.  It threw us off, to say the least.  The inevitable happened-the power went out.  That was OK by me, it gave us a bit of a break.  Four hours staring at GRE questions on a computer screen is pretty taxing.  And the computer didn't lose our information, so once power came back, we just hopped right back in to things.  
     The next day, I was off to Lira for the second annual World AIDs day event, hosted by Liz.  Last year I went as well, and it was a great turnout!  Several runners and many people interested in our health fair tent.  This year we had twice as many runners (5K), and the students from her PTC were there, so they also filled out the health fair.  Last year, we PCVs were running the booths but this year, Liz had worked with her PIASCY (Presidential Initiative on AIDS Strategy Communication to Youth) club so that they would be knowledgeable enough to run the fair.  I supervised the condom-demonstration booth, and my group was great!  They demonstrated the proper way of putting on a condom, with wooden models, and then they would answer questions.  One interesting thing about the mother-tongue interference in Lira is that with English words that begin with "a," they tend to put an "h" sound at the beginning.  When they would present in English, they tended to say things like, "you want to make sure there is no excess hair in the condom." While it was confusing to me at first, the audience knew that they were talking about air, not hair.  After making sure all participants understood everything there is to know about condom use, they would lead a relay-race game where the participants had to do a step of putting the condom on, then pass the model behind them.  The winning team went home with some free condoms!  I lauded them for their continual energy throughout the morning, and their great efforts in getting the health-fair participants involved.  They did such a nice job!   
     I was right back on a hot, crowded, plastic-seat-covered bus the next day, headed back for Entebbe for Camp GLOW 2012.  I was a staff member this year, so I didn't have my own group of girls to lead.  I felt a bit like a mother duck without ducklings--but I had a blast nonetheless!  I was running around with a whistle all day, trying to keep us on schedule.  Additionally, I was in charge of managing disciplinary issues.  There weren't any grave offenses, so my job was easy peasy.  
    This year, our American Ambassador to Uganda, Scott H. DeLisi , came to visit camp and talk to first the counselors and staff and then the girls about our work here.  His speech focused on the importance of HIV/AIDs awareness/education.  He is an inspiring speaker and an overall down-to-earth guy, which I think was surprising to many of the Ugandan staff and campers.  Hierarchy and protocol are golden in Uganda, and the bigger the title you have, the more pomp and ceremony is required for your presence.  He first came to address the counselors and staff before addressing the whole camp, and his first words were, "so, how is it going?"  He praised us for the great work we were doing, and how telling girls that they have a choice for what they do with their bodies, as well as their lives, and it shouldn't be up to anyone else.  
     My mind instantly flipped through a Rolodex of young girls I've met in Uganda who didn't get this message, who didn't have the chance to come to a Camp GLOW and who do not get to make their own choices about their bodies nor their future.  It made me think of stories I heard from a nearby primary school where girls ran away from home so they could complete P7, because their fathers saw no value in sending them to school anymore, and anyways they were worth money since they were old enough to be married off.  It made me think of my neighbor girl, a P6-aged pupil who was still in P3, a girl I had taken to GLOW East and she had loved every minute of it; two weeks after camp, she came into my house to return my books and said, "I'm going away and never coming back," then promptly started to sob.  Her mother had called from the village and demanded of my neighbor to send her home.  My neighbor was sad as well, saying she had no choice but had to listen to the girl's mother.  I asked her what would happen to the girl.  "She'll probably be married off."  And she didn't even get to P4.  As the ambassador continued to praise us for our great work, I sat in the back of the room, choking back tears.  I'm always happy to be part of the GLOW camps, and I am optimistic that the girls will take home the things they learn and share their knowledge with their friends and neighbors.         
    For the Ambassador's visit, we were given different shirts to wear which had something written on the front about America and Uganda working together to fight HIV, AIDs ribbons, and the Ugandan and American flags.  At lunch before his arrival, I asked the group of girls with whom I was eating to close their eyes.  They thought I was being strange, but they did it anyway.  I then asked them to tell me anything that was written on the shirt they were wearing.  They all giggled and probably collectively realized at that moment that they were given free shirts and had not taken a chance to see what they were saying nor think about why they were wearing them.  One girl finally spoke up and said, "well, it says Coca-Cola on the sleeve..." ahh, the power of advertisement!  Once they opened their eyes, they examined their shirts and hopefully made the connection between their new apparel and the theme of the day, "Glowing with Healthy Bodies." 
     The end of camp was bittersweet as always-- we were happy to finally get a break but sad that the fun was over.  I received a very nice letter from one of the campers, thanking me for my work. Those are always my favorite kinds of appreciation! 

   This post is pretty word-heavy, so here are some random pictures: 
Hanging out with Immaculate and her sisters before camp

Maggie enjoying a "New York" bagel with cream cheese! YUM!

My neighbor kiddos loved the sunglasses they got for Christmas.  THANKS RASHIDA! :) 

Shakira likes to see the world upside down
Eva, my Ugandan sister, hanging out before Christmas dinner


Me in a leisu--I was all ready to cook but I was too late!
  


Break time

Monday, November 19, 2012

Little Libraries reaches Iganga

     On Saturday, November 17th, I was at Maggie's site in Iganga for our final delivery.  I traveled to on the Thursday before.  It's about a 45 minute taxi ride, no problem.  Quick and comfortable.  This particular taxi was really taking its time, picking up anyone going anywhere on the way to Mbale (which is a distance).  There was a lot of loading and unloading passengers.  When I boarded, I was the fourth passenger in a row made for three, but I scrunched up accordingly (a technique at which I'm now an expert).  There was a four-year-old boy, clean scrubbed and decked out in a three-piece suit (ADORABLE).  Because children are the equivalent of luggage on public transport, he was standing, holding on the the bar thing that separates the passengers in the back from the driver. I assumed he was with the man squished up to the left of me, but to my surprise, he got out at the next stop, leaving the boy behind. "Is this your kid?"  I asked to the woman next to me, as I got back in.  
     "No, I think the mother is somewhere in back."  Strange, I thought.  I would want to sit with my kid.  Maybe she was carrying some big things... 
     The journey continued.  People got out at Maga Maga, the market, the next market, the steps, the place next to the cow, Musita, the big tree, the next road there, just there, just there there, and Bulanga.  When we reached Bulanga, a woman ran up who looked familiar, with her purple kitende top and red scarf headwrap.  In fact, she had gotten off about 20 minutes ago at the Bulanga stage.  Her eyes darted around frantically inside our taxi.  "Emma!" she cried, arms outstretched.  (Emma is a common male name here, short for Emmanuel).  
     "Momma!" the boy cried, making his way out the door.  This means that Momma Emma disembarked at Bulanga, looked around as the taxi drove off and realized that her kid wasn't with her. She must have taken a motorcycle taxi to chase the taxi she had just left behind, in hopes of finding the right one.  Our taxi was going to Mbale!  That's over 40 miles away.  The other passengers in the taxi, including myself, shared a strange laugh of both amazement (that she tracked down her kid) and relief.  Despite them all speaking Lusoga, I could at least laugh along.  

     And so, with that, I reached Iganga.  The rest, pictures!  :
"Show me those clean hands!"

"Musekaku!" (Moo-say-ka-kuu) Smile please!

SO HAPPY!
High five anybody?
Mingle, mingle...


Walugogo Primary School pupils
waiting eagerly to paint

Pupils at Bishop Willis Demonstration school learning
about how we put books away.


Maggie reading with a buddy

Mary reading

TEAMWORK!




 

Monday, November 12, 2012

This is what I do when I can't sleep....

...I write.  I guess.  I don't have much experience with insomnia.  Here's to new hobbies! 

I’ve learnt a lot in Uganda.  I’m certain that I gained more knowledge and insight than that I’ve inculcated.  I believe that this knowledge came through a mix of things I experienced, things I heard, things I read and, strangely enough, things I obtained from movies and TV shows.   Perhaps the actual watching of movies (or full TV series) starts as just a past time, especially when I’m feeling America-sick, but some bits and pieces can tie in to my other experiences and learnings here so well.  Below are some quotes that have really had an impact on me:

“Look, I didn’t invent the world, so don’t hate me, but, no one likes an angry woman.” -Friday Night Lights
   
    Not only do people not like angry women, they especially don’t like listening to angry women.  Want to be heard?  Don’t raise your voice or point your finger.  Do take a deep breath and evaluate the best way to respond.  Uganda gives me plenty to get angry about, but I remind myself that wearing my frustration on the outside won’t make anything easier.  This quote goes hand-in-hand with my new mantra, obviously taken from the famous British propaganda poster in 1939, Keep calm and carry on.  A life philosophy couldn’t have been better put.  

 “This is America--pick a job, then become the person that does it.” --Mad Men

    This quote reminds me our limitless opportunities in America.  We don’t have to decide in high school which courses to take in order to qualify for a program at the University.  We can reinvent ourselves several times over our lifetime.  This isn’t so true in Uganda--it seems you have to decide by the time you’re sixteen if you’re a lover of science or literature, then you have to find a career path that aligns.  I realize that I was born into a land of opportunity, and I am now determined to take advantage of that fact.

 “This is your life, and it’s ending one minute at a time.”  --Fight Club

    Life is short, and how short we never know exactly, until it’s over.  Be proud of what you do and who you are, and enjoy yourself along the way. 

    “The brave do not live forever, but the cautious do not live at all.” --mentioned in The Princess Diaries

    Something that’s fantastic about many Ugandans is that they live like there’s no tomorrow.  They especially party like it’s their last one.  While this could be perceived as also limiting, especially in the financial sense, it does accomplish something; just as anywhere in the world, death or tragedy could be just around the corner, but if you’re trying to anticipate it, you will not have made any good memories. 

 “How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.” --Annie

    Peace Corps can be a crap shoot.  Maybe you get a great site with an inspiring community and develop an awesome support network.  Or maybe you face corruption and obstacles everyday, accompanied by a community full of skeptical, close-minded individuals.  Luckily, I got the former, and just thinking about saying goodbye makes me tear up.  Saying goodbye to America was easy, cause I knew I was going back.  Saying goodbye to Uganda is tough because it may be forever. 

 “All right. Now, all you gotta remember is that everything will be okay.” --127 Hours

    “Okay” is a relative term.  Even if things aren’t ideal, they’re at least okay.  In the end of this movie, the main character has one less limb.  But things were still okay.  “...everything will be okay.”  I tell myself this daily.

It's three thirty AM and I can't sleep.  Everything will be okay...keep calm and carry on...

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Wanyange book delivery with multicolored hands

Sorting out the books the night
before

Divine Hope Primary School, checking out the new reads
 Today was intense!  We delivered many books and painted many hands.  Sorry this blog doesn't follow a very logical order.  My power is out so I'm not going to waste time perfecting it!  ENJOY!
101 Dalmations!

Seriously engaged





A finished product at Divine Hope

L-R, Mary, Nicole and Maggie

Aziz, Headteacher of Divine Hope, receiving the keys to his library
Getting our hands messy

A teacher at Nuvila Primary School made sure there weren't
any spaces left!

A teacher at Nuvila Primary School, receiving the keys to their
library

Maggie monitors the artwork
Free reading at Divine Hope





Get all those fingers in there!


"Hmm...which colour shall I choose?"

A kid had the same Birkenstock sandals as Maggie!

Some extra pressure helps
"Musekaku!"







The kids were so good at waiting their turn!  I was impressed

Get those thumbs!

"This is how we do it..."


"Smile!  Let me see your teeth!"

Squish.
Nicole, a former kindergarten teacher, and current PCV, was key in
the success of our art project, thank you again Nicole!

Well done!




A teacher from Wairaka Primary School, receiving the keys.

At the end of a long day of painting and hauling stuff...

...Maggie and I enjoyed just chilling out and reading with kids.
Museka-ku!  :D  Gets them every time.


...and the books!



Thursday, November 8, 2012

Little Libraries Workshop in pictures

Our book display--it reminded us of Scholastic book fairs

The science-themed book table

Maggie, introducing the project

Brainstorming
Our teachers

Reading "The Little Engine That Could"

"I think I can, I think I can..."

Reading
Read, read, read

Arthur has "Teacher Trouble"

Taking turns reading

While Maggie wrote new words,
I had to confiscate a newspaper
brought by a participant...
Head teacher of Nuvila Primary School
giving a summary of "The Berenstein Bears and the
Messy Room"

"Who is the illustrator?"

Proscovia, from Canon Ibula, exploring a big book

"It's Not Fair"
Maggie, teaching story line